Evaluate Yourself!!

Have you ever evaluated yourself? sounds strange? Try it.. Simple steps to know yourself better.. We spend hours and life knowing and understanding others but how far do we know Our self? can u grade urself? can u stand out and say " hey i have 70/100" ?

A lot of people always bother about others opinion, their comments and then will get shattered or flattered. We need not depend how society judge us. Infact why do we need to know wat others think of us why cant we be our own judge?

As an individual we have our own identity which may not be strong enough to stand out in crowd. You may not be famous, may not be known my many people but as person u stil have ur score as 40. Ur designation, Ur attitude, Ur history will add up to make it 20 and another 20 from the society. Now is it really required that we beg for the remaining 40 also from the society? wont it be great if we work towards it?


"How" is your question? Every time you evaluate your self be sincere in accepting your mistakes. Do what your are good at and what u think u can do. Try what u cant do. It may be difficult but not impossible. Nothing is impossible and nobody is perfect. So do your mistakes but don repeat them another time. A mistake is done once. Do not value judge your ans as yes OR no, Good OR bad, it may not always make sense. Be aware of the changes happening around you, for that u have to be quick enough to perceive the changes and reflect on them. If u fail any time heaven sake don feel its the end of the world, be calm and think on what went wrong and how u can improve over it. Even if u fail society wil reject u but thats only the 20 u lose and u stil have your 60 with u which is not bad. Ur attitude are like roots of a tree and your responses and actions are the leaves and branches. If the leaves or branches are cut u can still survive because your roots are still firm. Be a good listener because he who listens gets the ans floating. When u compete do it with your self because no 1 else can be at the same level as u r whit the same skill level. Do not impress any one no 1 needs it. Every one forgets it pretty soon. Impress yourself.

Treat urself as a king wen u win but don forget to be a slave when u r learning. Learn as much as u can from the mistakes and failures. It will only cost u some pain but remember we want the remaining 40.  Some pain for gain is fine.

What others feel about u is just a feedback which can be ignored if irrelevant. How others judge u is immaterial its just a means to know where u fall short for ur 40. Remember "U must have a critic as ur neighbor" let them criticize, u just work on where u have to grow.

Mark a level for yourself to reach and make sure u achieve it. Work sincerely and honestly. decide what is right and wrong. Work in your domain because what is right for u may be wrong for some one else. Believe in urself, try to do what u hate to do. Learn to manage without any help. fall down if required but rise with greater impact to hit back. Remember ho w u learned to ride your bicycle? how proud u were to ride it without any help.

"U r the sculptor of your life". U decide how u want to live your life. Live as a king stand out in the crowd or be one among the crowd and be lost where no 1 knows u and values u and u always cry about who said what to u. "Barking dogs seldom bite" so go ahead and find your way to be unique in the crowd."Be the diamond in the coal mine". Don worry about the critics they are meant to gossip and help u rise. Without they criticizing, u will not have your score rising. Just like without a 0, 100 has no meaning.

For the readers: Any more insights on this are always welcome... Even an average person can win. If u win a bicycle or u win a skoda u r still the winner but don stop on winning a bicycle go ahead and win ur skoda.

Sharp turns!!

Life is said to take sharp turns.. what are the turns? Is it wen u move from sadness to happiness o vice versa? Being in a comfort zone for long makes a human mind adjust to it. It then becomes a place of dwelling and being in happy moments. All that changes even a lilttle for a human in that comfort zone is termed as sharp turn even if its never been a turn at all. Humans lose their state of mind wen there is a shift in their comfort zone.

Comfort Zone is not defined anywhere. Its the smal room or lines that humans draw around our self and define in that the ways or methods or things that make humans happy or sad. If its sad the lines seem to have been shifted drastically and if its happiness they are still the same. Being in comfort zone is not bad but we also need to be out of it sometimes to keep growing. Sometimes we are so insane that we forget to perceive the changes around us. The changes which humans must be aware of to shift tracks which will definitely bring growth to humans.

Shifting tracks is when a human must perceive the change and change to adjust to that environment. Sticking to the same room created by him only keeps the growth stagnant and then there are statements such as "Why on earth am I the one suffering?" "Why it has to be me always?"

Humans become pessimist. Issue is how do we perceive these changes? Answer is very simple.Open mindedness, reviewing the standards, awareness and a strong positive attitude towards any situation makes it easy. But alas most of us have our mind shut with the rules and standards the society decides for us.

And hence it a sharp turn for us.. We fail to respond quick enough to the changes happening around us at the same speed as they happen.Life is not so sharp that it cuts you down in pieces. Its just turned sharp enough to change and for you to perceive.